The honest comparison
The website you build yourself is never free
Most people in this world try to build it themselves. First on Wix or Squarespace, now with AI, because AI looks faster.
This page is the arithmetic of all three routes: the drag and drop builder, the AI builder, and me. What each one costs in money, in months, and in the energy you were saving for your own work. Read it and decide with the numbers in front of you.
Where the money, the months and the energy go
Most people never see the whole bill: the hosting that renews at double, the credits spent changing a font, the Sunday that disappeared into one bug. Here are the three routes, in the order people usually try them.
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An AI builds it, five credits at a time
The first ten minutes feel like magic. Then the credits run out in the middle of the thought you were having, and the rest of that idea waits until tomorrow.
The look you had in mind
Comes back as something else
Built from your references
Credits, every time
Every change costs credits
Free, no meter
Members / course area
Slow, credit-hungry
Easy, free to iterate
Who owns it
Locked in a black box
100% yours to keep
You build it yourself on Wix, Squarespace or WordPress
Starting is easy. Two years later you are still paying every month, and the site still sounds like the template instead of like you.
Hosting bills
Monthly fees; doubles in year 2
0€ a year, forever
Email & domain setup
Broken email, hours of settings
Done right in minutes
Sounding like your practice
Sounds like the template
Sounds like you
Speed & SEO
Bloated, slow pages
Lean, fast, ranks better
You do it alone, and ask the AI everything
Confident answers arrive in seconds. Judging whether they are right is the part you are being handed.
Explaining who you are
Hours writing about yourself
Two conversations, I write it
How long it actually takes
Three to five months of evenings
About two weeks
When something goes wrong
Sure-sounding advice, then a forum
A real person + maintenance
Your evenings
Tutorials, forums, the same bug
Yours again
The real 2-year cost
Hundreds of euros, and climbing
Build once, 0€ after
Now put your own numbers in
Everything above is what these routes cost in general. This is what yours costs. Drag the sliders to what you actually pay today.
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The “cheap” route, over 2 years
1,008€
504 €/year · 42 €/month, and climbing
With me: 0€ a year on hosting, and no credits. You edit, add and remove pages yourself for free, or I do it for a small monthly fee. The only two things you ever pay for are the domain and a one-off 25€ if you pass 250 form submissions. The number I aim at: the site pays itself back within two years.
If that number surprised you, send it to me and I'll tell you what I would do in your place.
A WhatsApp message with your number already in it. Nothing to prepare, nothing to sign.
If you also sell
Wix, Squarespace, WordPress or Shopify all rent you a checkout for about 20€ a month. When the shop is new and the sales are still few, that is around 240€ a year going out before much comes in. If what you sell is a set of pieces you make yourself, there is a version of this you buy once. Skip this one if you do not sell.
The monthly fee
≈20€/month, ~480€ over two years
No monthly fee, just the domain
How it looks
A theme thousands of shops share
Designed around your brand
VAT
Automated, billed every month
Priced in, nothing to configure
Shipping
Zones and rates, on the plan
Zones and rates, already in checkout
Managing orders
A dashboard you rent
A dashboard you own, built in
Confirmation emails
Branded templates, ready made
Receipt from day one, branded when you want
Proper invoices
Does not issue them
Does not issue them either
When Shopify is the right answer
Shopify exists for a reason, and there are shops where I would tell you to go and pay for it. Four things make that call, and the number of products is not one of them.
Real variants. One piece in ten combinations of size and colour, each combination holding its own stock, is ten things to keep count of. Twenty five products like that is two hundred and fifty. At that point you want software whose entire job is counting.
Volume. Dozens of orders a day, where handling each one by hand stops being possible.
More than one place to sell. Your own shop, Instagram, Etsy and a market stall, all pulling from the same stock at the same time, all needing to agree with each other.
Tax across borders. Real sales in several countries, each with its own VAT rules to satisfy.
Without any of those, this setup carries a shop comfortably past fifty or a hundred products. With any of them, that monthly fee is buying you something real, and I will tell you so on the call instead of selling you a build.
Even then, the shop looks like you. I build sites in a kind of bento box, one compartment per tool, and Shopify becomes one of those compartments. It works behind the scenes as your stockroom and your till: the products, the variants, the stock, the payments and all the paperwork that comes with them. What your customers see sits in another compartment, designed by me and built in code around your brand. You keep everything Shopify is good at, and none of its themes.
Tell me what you sell and how you sell it, and I will tell you which of these two your shop actually needs, even when the answer is the one with the monthly fee.
The part no calculator can add up
Everything above is money, and money is the easy half.
You do this work for other people. To hold a room, a ceremony, a table of ten, you have to arrive with something in you. That is what the website has been quietly spending. The evening you meant to rest. The dinner where you were somewhere else. The attention that belonged to your offer, your practice, the people who need what you do.
Nobody invoices you for that one. It arrives as tiredness, and then as a thought you have probably already had: I need to hand this to someone.
Hand it over. You go back to the cacau, the dance, the treatments, the workshops, the things you make with your hands. I build it in about two weeks, and you see every step as it happens.
And you will not have to explain your world first. I am in the same rooms as you are. I go to the ceremonies and the dances, I meditate, I keep fire. So when you say why yours is not a spa, that part is already understood.
“I originally built my website myself on Wix. It no longer feels like a DIY website, and I feel much more confident sending potential clients there.”
Tell me where you are stuck. You don't need to know what you want yet, that part is my job.
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